I wanted to elaborate on why I have no sympathy for sluts, but first, some biological facts.
Testosterone is the biological chemicle responsible for sex drive in both men and women. In both men and women mild amounts of testosterone are produced in the adrenal glands. In men larger amounts of testosterone are produced by the testicals, and in women additional testosterone is produced from the ovaries. On average women carry about 1/7 the amount of testosterone in their bodies that a male body produces in ONE DAY. Unless a woman is on steroids, then there is no way any woman can even begin to imagine what it is like to live with the male sex drive.
All the cartoon and comedic representations of men drooling, having accelerated heart beats, having bugged out eyes, and generally going nuts are all based on truth. Testosterone production for men peaks at the age of 40, on average, but it is teenage boys and young men (early 20′s) who have the most difficulty dealing with it because it is relatively new to them and they have yet to learn how to control it. When an attractive woman walks by a man it can cause a tingling in his mouth, if she gets closer his heart rate goes up. It becomes harder to think, thoughts become clouded and incoherent and are replaced with desires that cannot always be verbalized. It’s like there is a raging beast screaming to be let out and do… whatever, and that beast tears at his intellect.
When the beast first emerges in the early teens, girls (at least the attractive ones) are no longer just people with longer hair, they are irresistable magnets that draw you in with almost tangible cords. If an attractive girl is sitting next to you then you can forget about paying attention in math class, if she accidentally touches you then you can forget about sitting up straight in your desk. Even if there is no attractive girl around it is not necessarily a repreive, the mind still wanders as the beast tugs on it and the imagination runs, creating it’s own imagery (this is another reason why the Islamic idea of keeping the women in tents is pointless). The adrenaline surges through the body, parts of the body tingle, the heart rate accelerates, something inside feels like it’s going to burst, and it’s always there even in the calm moments, scratching at the back of your mind. It’s a strong urge, similar to having to go the bathroom after having drunken a gallon of water strait. No emotions are necessary to act on that urge. The only way to cope is to put chains on the beast. Chain it up through rigerous mental discipline, logic, and moral understanding.
As the chains are forged it becomes easier to live with and easier to push aside. It becomes easier to think and to be around women without suffering a reduced and clouded thought process, or embarrassing and annoying physical side effects. But make no mistake, if the beast is ever let out for one encounter it is very hard to get it back in place. Even under the best of control and the highest level of civilization the beast is still there scratching at the back of your mind without ceasing. The best one can hope for is to reduce it to white noise.
Women need to understand this. Men do not need to have their emotions involved in order to have sex. Men have strong rutting instincts, which urge them on to tap every attractive female in sight. Men do not respect “liberated” women/sluts, they merely use them to satisfy their rutting instincts, because most men want to engage in uncomitted sex. Men will tell a woman whatever she wants to hear in order to get inside her pants, and then when the man has what he wants he’s off to the next conquest. I had a friend who told me that before he was Christian he wanted to tap every kind of woman in the world at least once so that he could maximize his experience and feel different varieties of pleasure.
With women it’s different. For women the sex drive is tied in with the emotions, and women usually have to be emotionally stimulated or involved before they engage in sex. Or at the very least women have to derive some level of emotional satisfaction from the sexual encounter, and will seek it out for that reason.
I myself have never had sex, but for me it was a choice. I never had sex because I never got married, and for now I am not married because I am not making enough money to support a woman, much less a family. I am therefore being responsible and throwing some more chains around the beast rather than exposing myself to STD’s or causing someone to get pregnant. I know that at least some of the liberals who read this will say, “Oh it’s just because you’re ugly.” First of all, that is most certainly not the case, and second, even if I were ugly it would be irrelevant because ugliness does not pose the same level of impediment to men that it does to women. A man whose only ambition is a sexual encounter can get it even if he is 100 years old (assuming he wants it), there is always some insecure woman that will give it up in order to feel validated on some level.
So when I hear women saying that they “can’t help it” or that it is “such a strong urge,” I have to call bullcrap. If there are men who can help it then any women can help it.
Here is our sex drive:
Here is yours:
Don’t tell me you can’t control it or that it’s hard to control, because that’s a flagrant lie. Take your Little Pony on your worst day and multiply it by 7, and that’s what the average man has to deal with. Women don’t struggle with their sex drive, they struggle with their emotions. Emotions are to women what sex drive is to men.
Our emotions:
Your emotions:
I know a woman might have a hard time controlling her emotions, but not her sex drive. Women have sex for emotional validation, men have sex to satisfy a strong biological urge. I don’t want to hear any woman saying she can’t control it. Also, I find it to be a huge turn off when women act like they are primarily interested in sex more than a relationship. I find it disgusting and backwards, because they are acting like a man. I would much rather be with someone who says “Aww” uncontrollably when something mushy happens in a movie than someone who continually talks about how they want to grope my junk. It’s not natural for a woman to be like that, which means that it’s either just a show or there is some kind of physical imbalance in the woman which probably needs to be treated medically. Similarly I doubt many women want to be with a guy who weighs 100 pounds, eats nothing but celery, and cries during a movie.
That is all.
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